Thanks Debra. We've talked about this so often, that feeling that we are missing something so profound in our lives - for you, not being home, and for me, not working outside the home. I didn't have a single regret until I came out of my marriage and what I can only call my mommy stupor to ponder how I was in this position. We both give up and gain so much either way - there's no clear answer. Anyway - I do so appreciate your kind words and your always cheering me on.XO