This is an affirming and inspiring piece. My marriage did not survive my husband’s affair and I’ve spent a lot of time thinking and writing about why when it seemed like we had the foundation of which you so beautifully write. I think the ways in which you and your husband were able to show up for each other even in such a dark moment speaks to your ability to communicate and empathize with each other. Somehow my husband and I lost that and couldn’t get it back. It’s always interesting to see the story from the other side. Thank you for sharing.