Wow, what has made you so angry? I had very good parents. My mother was widowed with two young children when she was 35. She worked hard and put herself through school for years to earn a doctorate. But we also had a strong belief that marriage is forever and once you are part of a family you make decisions and support each other as a family. Would I do things differently now? Probably. But I don’t judge other women for choices they have made - I’m not sure where judging me so harshly gets you.